Marriage Isn’t For You

“your marriage isn’t for yourself, you’re marrying for a family”
ah.. andaikan ada lelaki seperti ini..
ah.. sudah lah..

Seth Adam Smith

Having been married only a year and a half, I’ve recently come to the conclusion that marriage isn’t for me.

Now before you start making assumptions, keep reading.

I met my wife in high school when we were 15 years old. We were friends for ten years until…until we decided no longer wanted to be just friends. 🙂 I strongly recommend that best friends fall in love. Good times will be had by all.

Nevertheless, falling in love with my best friend did not prevent me from having certain fears and anxieties about getting married. The nearer Kim and I approached the decision to marry, the more I was filled with a paralyzing fear. Was I ready? Was I making the right choice? Was Kim the right person to marry? Would she make me happy?

Then, one fateful night, I shared these thoughts and concerns with my dad.

Perhaps each…

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12 thoughts on “Marriage Isn’t For You

  1. kok banyak banget yang ngeshare nih tulisan ya? Menurutku sih omongan si cowok itu masih belum terbukti, usia pernikahannya baru 1,5 tahun, masih belum punya anak, masih tergolong manten anyar, terang aja dia bisa dengan mudahnya ngomong gitu. Kalau kata Radith mah, cintanya belum KADALUARSA, haha!

    Si kambing waktu awal2 pacaran juga pasti kayag gini, aku yakin, buahahahahahahah!

    • hahaha.. iya juga sih yaaa.. tapi, kan dia juga udaha lamaaa banget sama ceweknya sebelum dia memutuskan untuk nikahin ini cewek.. tapi, bener juga sih yaa kamu, mas. :3 *jadi, bingung*

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